The topic of having children is very sensitive especially to women. We have seen a number of female celebs come out to openly speak about their fertility issues and some make it known that they wish to wait. Just like Bonang, who said in an interview some time back, that she wants to first live her life before she settles down and brings another life into this earth. But these trolls did not get the memo, and B put them in their place.
Bonang Matheba is having the time of her life in New York City currently and doing all the things she said she would do before becoming a mother. Bonang has carved her name in the entertainment scene in South Africa and parts of Africa. She is also aiming to go global hence her stay in America. She has a pretty impressive body of work that a troll wanted to know when is she extending her family by introducing kids.
“I don’t understand why they don’t wanna have kids so that the legacy extends,” said a troll in that now deleted tweet. Another then tagged Bonang and asked her when, but Bonang was not prepared to answer that question. So she told the intrusive trolls to “go f**k yourselves.”
Go fuck yourselves. ❤️ https://t.co/E7CEyUmuYr
— Bonang Matheba 👑 (@Bonang) November 15, 2021
— Thaki Motaung (@7_Motaung) November 15, 2021
In an interview with IOL, Bonang said she does get pressured to settle down especially because she is in her 30s. “My life right now I want to party, to enjoy my alcohol beverages, to go to night clubs and party. I want to get on an Emirates plane at two o’clock in the morning and not stress anybody,” she said.
“I love children and I know as soon as I have a child everything is going to stop. I can’t have a child now because I am very selfish with myself and with my time. There are certain things that I want to do first and achieve before I bring someone into this world,” she opened up.
Another star who got trolled for not giving her husband Khuli Chana a child of their own is Lamiez Holworthy. She was talking about the pressures of society and that they dictate to not only women but wives on how many kids to have but she was not having it. A troll said, “That’s not OK you can’t have everything you want in life and fail to give Khuli a child, issa no no. Don’t you want a child or Khuli doesn’t want a child or is it bcoz you guys can’t make a child?”
But Lamiez was also like not today, “You’re a joke. The point that I just made flew right over your head neh?! Imagine a whole adult like yourself so invested in MY life. Tell me how any of this is your business also?”
Wena o joke!
Ke gore the point that I just made flew right over your head neh?!
Imagine a whole adult like yourself so invested in MY life.
Tell me how any of this is your business also?
O stlaela wena,jy’s Dom! Houtkop nje. 😔 shame man. https://t.co/ThtFaV3MRN
— 𝔻𝕁 𝕃𝕒𝕞𝕚𝕖𝕫 ℍ𝕠𝕝𝕨𝕠𝕣𝕥𝕙𝕪 (@LamiezHolworthy) June 6, 2021
Opening up about her febrility problems and having had four miscarriages, Lerato Kganyago is no longer afraid to speak about this. “Yes, I had a miscarriage this year again. Yes, it was my fourth miscarriage. But I’m okay. I was three or four months pregnant and unfortunately, I lost my baba. This is something that I didn’t want to discuss but since we’re having an honest night. Yes, I was pregnant this year.”