DJ Zinhle’s The Unexpected which focuses on her private life, has once again managed to stir up a conversation and this time her children are being put on the spotlight. On the latest episode, Zinhle revealed that her baby daddy AKA, is willing to be a part of Asante’s life and she was all for it. But Asante’s dad, Murdah Bongz, is taking baby steps in making sure this whole blended family situation comes to pass.
On last Saturday’s episode of the BET Africa reality show, The Era By DJ Zinhle founder made a startling revelation that she announced her pregnancy to AKA who expressed joy and eagerness to meet and be a part of Asante’s life.
Seeing how Murdah is also involved in Kairo’s life, it only makes sense for AKA to also have some sort of relationship with Asante, right?
“I spoke to Kiernan about the baby. He said I’m quite a rebel. ‘You have another kid, with another man’. He said “your family must think you are such a problem,” Zinhle laughed.
According to Zinhle, AKA said he feels just because he has a child with Zinhle, it kind of feels like Asante is also his child, “He said I need to know the details, so I said okay it is a girl. He said I was hoping for a boy, sit. My brother, it is not your baby and he said it kind of feels like it is my baby, I said wow, that is crazy,” she added.
“He said well obviously Bongani has a relationship with Kairo. So you guys can’t ask me not to have a relationship with this one,” she added.
Zinhle did point out that Murdah is not in a hurry for the blended family setup, “Bongani is baby steps because I won’t lie… I thought Bongani is going to be the easy one about this whole thing and I thought Kiernan would be difficult but actually it is the other way around,” said DJ Zinhle.
“Kiernan is more open to the idea of having this family but Bongani is just taking his time. He is not in a rush and I also need to respect Bongani’s wishes and how he wants to roll this whole thing out,” she said.
Now, on social media, Tweeps are discussing this, days after it aired, and they said that they do not see anything wrong with AKA wanting to be a part of Asante’s life because the little girl and her daughter are sisters. So should he plan on taking Kairo out, Asante would also automatically be there because they are family at the end of the day.
When has Kiernan tapped in and out of his child life for people to assume that’s what he wants to do to Asante as well? Bathong or am I reading this incorrectly 🥴 https://t.co/f8pB0CTAj2
— Mrs Majesty (@Mrs_MajestyN) December 1, 2021
I don't think she meant Aka is forever present in Asante's life but coz he's an active dad to K their lives will overlap coz of the girls. I don't think it's a bad thing if we're all mature and it's in the best interest of the kids https://t.co/7w6hcVGmbP
— #Vaccinated💉 (@dTumza) December 1, 2021
Bo bari ke jwa Eng?? Akere Kairo and Asante are siblings?? So if AKA calls and says he wants to take Kairo out on a date, must he then leave Asante?? https://t.co/I9uCDNY8TK
— BORN SINNER (@iamBoagoFabio) December 1, 2021
No I get it. There will be instances Kairo and Asante will want to be together even when it's AKA's turn to have Kairo. Things like picking them up together at parties etc. Asante needs to be familiar with AKA. It's about the children and not the adults https://t.co/gIK5RfTiDm
— Dusty Mbelle (@Dus_Tee_) December 1, 2021
But if Asante’s dad doesn’t get it and doesn’t seem keen, we can’t force that on him. It’s his child, his decision
— YT: Cooking With a Bang (@MsMabala) December 1, 2021
I honestly feel like it’s unfair for AKA to want to co-parent Asante. Bongz will be Kairo’s step-dad, AKA won’t be Asante’s step-dad. The only reason Bongz gets to be a part of Kiaro’s life is cause he is his moms partner. AKA is nothing to Z but a baby daddy https://t.co/g5DoQjo2TY
— Riley Escobar 👑✨ (@rileyyescobar) December 1, 2021