Actress and musician Simphiwe ‘Simz’ Ngema has taken to her Instagram account to pen a heartfelt letter to herself.
Simz reflected on how the past couple of weeks have been draining, mentally, physically and emotionally. She said she is grateful that she conquered through all the trials and tribulations.
“It’s been a difficult couple of weeks, mentally, physically and emotionally. Today, you finally took some time to reflect on everything that has happened and I want to say to you, well done! you thrive even during the most difficult times. The past few weeks have been overwhelming, you’ve had to plan a funeral, go to rehearsals, performances, launch a song, meet deadlines for campaigns, be a mother and show up for your grieving family while dealing with your own grief. I honestly don’t know how you did it, I’m in awe of the woman that you are. Today was about taking a deep breathe and reminding yourself that you are amazing and you are doing well. I love you Quing Simz. Keep chasing those dreams and keep winning. You are a conqueror,” she wrote.
Simz recently took to Instagram to share, “He who finds a wife finds a good thing” she’s a wife before you find her and make her yours. (Read that again) you see, there are a lot of women but wives…wives will build you and your home, others will destroy it with their bare hands. #mythoughts”
Simz also said that being an independent woman who wants to just work for her money gets tiring sometimes but there’s no better feeling than achieving something and knowing that it’s all God, “He and you did that!!! with no help from anybody else”
Simz recently announced her break up from her baby daddy Tino. A lot of people on Twitter were saddened by the news as they felt that the two were a perfect match. While there was a significant number of people that believe that the two were taking us for a ride. Some of their fans couldn’t help but point out the ring that was on the actress’ finger and to her defence, she has had it on for a while.
Also, the announcement came after the two spent a weekend away in Cape Town and they looked so cosy and in love. Or were they just posting for the gram? A Revealing their separation on social media, Simz said that this has been one of her greatest experiences ever. She added that it is a love story about two people fighting all the odds to be together.
“An end to a beautiful love story. This has been one of my greatest experiences, a beautiful love story of two people fighting all the odds to be together. I have learnt to love again, to feel again, to live again and to smile again. I will forever be grateful for Everything you have taught me.” She shared.
She further added that she is not bitter about the break-up and that they will continue to be good parents to their son Tiyani.
“I pray that God gives us the strength and wisdom to raise our beautiful son. @tiyani_chinyani we will always be great parents to you and we will always be there for you. No tears here, just lessons learnt and beautiful memories. I really had a beautiful fun weekend. Here’s to friendship and dope ass co-parenting.
Simphiwe had only been married to Rhythm City star Dumi Masilela for a couple of months when her happily-ever-after was cut short. The tragic incident left her with an emptiness and a heartache she never thought she would get over. Since then, Simphiwe Ngema has kept his memories alive. She recently talked about her late husband and shared some beautiful memories.